Name It


The free companion to
Steady and Connected Podcast: Episode 2
Recognise the pattern when it shows up — and stop fighting yourself

When the gap arrives — the unanswered message, the quiet evening, the unread tone — your attachment system may be doing what it learned to do. Naming the pattern is the work. This one-page guide helps you recognise five common signals — without judgment, without fixing — across the week.

What's inside

Five recognition signals:

  • Monitoring
  • The gap is hard
  • The pull to act
  • Tending the other first
  • The inner story

Why naming alone is the work (not fixing, not stopping the feeling)
with a journaling line for each — to keep beside you across the week

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